The other day, I was looking through some of my things from
college when I came across a few articles I wrote during my sophomore year while
I worked for the school newspaper, the Lakeholm Viewer. I had almost entirely
forgotten about them, and it was fun reading back through them. I figured since
this is my collection of things I have written, I would add them on here. Sorry
if they aren’t amazing. I was only a sophomore!
Pros and cons of marriage
while in college weighed by students
By Zach Zeltman
Staff Writer
September 24, 2010
September 24, 2010
The majority of
students at Mount Vernon Nazarene University seem to want to get married . . .
soon! Many people joke about getting a ring by spring, but quite a few students
have already taken the plunge.
According to
research assistant Carla Parsons, MVNU has more than 80 traditional students
who are married. So despite what many people think, only about four percent of
students at MVNU are married.
Out of 34 students
polled, nearly 40 percent said they either plan to get married while in college
or at least meet their future spouse during that time.
Broken down by
gender, the numbers are closer than one might have thought. Forty-one percent
of females compared to 33 percent of males thought they would get married or
find their future spouse while in college.
Multiple students
responded by saying that finding a spouse was not on the top of their priority
list of things to accomplish while at MVNU, but they were still open to the
prospect of finding a potential husband or wife.
This summer, junior
business management major Scott Hilbert married his high school sweetheart,
Haley Dunham, a junior nursing major. He says getting married was an easy
decision for him. Scott and Haley Hilbert had been dating for almost five years
before tying the knot. Both of their parents were married at a young age so
they were fully supportive in Scott’s and Haley’s wanting to get married while
they were still in college.
Haley Hilbert says
being a married student at MVNU is “super convenient.” She can always be with
her best friend and can escape from campus life when needed. She adds that she
gets homesick much less now because she feels that she is now in her own home.
“I love being
married in college. It was the best decision I’ve ever made,” she said.
One can imagine that
being married in college can be challenging for many reasons. The most obvious
reason is the time commitment of being a student, participating in
extracurricular activities and just wanting to spend time with friends on
campus.
There are benefits
to being married while in college as well. The state and federal governments
help married students quite a bit, and the MVNU family discount is nice too.
Scott and Haley
Hilbert both talked about how they enjoy the married housing provided by MVNU
because it is close enough that they are still around their friends and can be
at events if they want, but they aren’t stuck on campus all the time.
“I think that
students can find their spouse here because of the Christian atmosphere,”
student body president Jameson Seymour said.
“Most of the
students want to have a healthy, Christ-following relationship, and since MVNU
is a Christian campus, it is easier to find a life-long companion.”
Seymour also says
that he thinks sometimes students think they need to find a relationship at the
University, but this should not be the norm for college-age students.
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